![]() There are times when it's so easy to get caught up in all that needs fixing! I start to do that, then remember that I don't have to fix everything that goes wrong. In fact, I can't, whether I'm thinking of what goes wrong in one crazy evening at home or in public education or this coming presidency. In our homes--stuff is going to happen. Kids will be upset, get overwhelmed by their emotions, act out, feel worried and sad, avoid talking about what's wrong, refuse to eat a perfectly good dinner (even though they like it), be defiant or sneaky, be worryingly eager-to-please, get sick, and so much more. The role of the wise parent is to show up. To do what is in our power. To listen to the angry child with love even when they aren't at their most lovable. To be steady for the worrying child. To eat our own perfectly good dinner. To love these messy, imperfect beings as they truly are, not as we want them to be. To take care of our own feelings and forgive ourselves for the mistakes we make. And when we think of what's going on in the wider world, our work is similar. As citizens, our role is to show up. Let's stay awake and alert, even when what is happening is uncomfortable. Let's respond wisely instead of reactively. Let's take good care of ourselves and each other. Instead of adding our voices to the drama of the times, let's be steady, clear, and aware of our true power.
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3/3/2017 05:43:15 am
We need to examine the different actions that we are planning to do and we must be smart about our moves. We must know about this because there may be consequences that we might not like, and this is to avoid some future regrets. A reminder for all of the people who have many things in mind and we should not be impulsive. A post for the elders and to the younger generations. They will read this sincerely.
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