![]() When parents begin to rest in the true self, everything changes from the inside out. We focus less on what's wrong with our children, or their teachers, friends, grades, health, room, or whatever. Our primary focus becomes clear, to be right with ourselves. We look inward. We listen deeply to our own feelings and thoughts. We make space to feel without reacting. That inward focus helps us to get right with our kids. We listen to them. We listen to what they say at the surface, to their complaints and struggles, their excitement and silliness, to their stories and questions. And we also listen deeply to what's under the surface. The the feelings under the complaint. To the needs under their questions. We don't turn away from the hard things, wishing our kids could be happier or smarter or more disciplined. We show up--patient, clear, and willing. Is your focus inward or outward today?
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About Gloria:My life and work are guided by the these core understandings: that all beings (including me!) are capable of transformation and joy, that healthy parenting matters profoundly, and that simple practices can support each of us. Join my email list here, or call or email to schedule an appointment or learn more about classes.Archives
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